31st night

By Rubab Abdullah, Dhaka Cantonment, Dhaka
28 December 2003, 18:00 PM
Photo: STAR
It is only two days, and we will see another new year. In the recent years we have noticed that following the modern western customs, massive celebrations take place on the new year's eve. Some rich people as well as clubs and hotels make business by arranging night parties and offer many ways of enjoyment like drinking, music, dancing, etc. And many people of all sorts are in mad rush to join in these year-ending gatherings.

Though these parties are full of fun, they have negative sides as well. Many awkward incidents had taken place in the past. On account of drinking liquor, some party-goers lose their control and indulge in senseless violence like fighting, breaking things and misbehaving with others. In order to be the centre of attraction, many society girls adorn themselves in such dresses in these parties that only raise bestiality in some men.

Dancing is the worst part of these night gatherings because some people use it to make physical contact with dancing partners which ushers in relationship problems in many cases. With the midnight approaching, these parties become so wild in fun and frolic that dignity of women are not safe at all. Not only in late night parties but also in roads and streets, some people create disorder. They throw paint, mud on passers by and damage motor vehicles in the name of celebrations. Loud thud of crackers and bombs go on continuously till the clock bells announce a new year which are really irritating.

In fact, there is nothing wrong to celebrate the year- ending night, but the way it is now celebrated can only undermine the value and dignity of our customs and traditions. So, we should not follow something which is not consistent with our sense of morality.