Alcohol consumption
While many urbanites in Dhaka, and elsewhere, may find it fashionable and 'modern' to consume alcohol, I think the opposite is true. Many people in the West are turning away from alcohol, as it only leads to more social ills than good. Moreover, drinking alcohol goes against the teachings of our religion. So I find it rather hypocritical that people indulging in such ways simultaneously claim themselves to be practising Muslims. What I find even more amazing is that many of the Bangladeshis living in the West, who are surrounded by a culture of alcohol consumption, do not feel the need or pressure to drink and often refrain from alcohol consumption. Yet people in Bangladesh feel that it is all right to do so, perhaps feeling that it is a status symbol or sign of modernity. I would argue that it is rather a sign of mimicry of the worst kind, and a lack of self-respect and dignity, that is driving many of the young (and old) towards an alien culture . I would further say that it is a sign of strength and character to avoid drinking alcohol, to be able to say 'no thanks', rather than to give in to something that has no real value.
I would urge fellow Bangladeshis, especially the young, to look at the social, psychological and health problems that alcohol creates, and learn to say NO. You don't need alcohol to have fun, to be 'cool', or to fit in. Learn to be cool and strong on your own, not because you drink alcohol.