Help the retarded

By Naeema C. Quayes Male, Maldives
19 October 2005, 18:00 PM
Forty-two thousand children in Bangladesh, writes Syeda Nazma Ahmed (A Bright Girl, The Daily Star, 26.10.05), suffer from one form of mental or physical retardation or the other. My first reaction was: Why so many are handicapped? How are they and their families coping with the problems? Here is yet another disadvantaged group besides street children and child labourers who need our help. But what, exactly, are we doing?

The first step to understanding any issue, I believe, is to know as much as possible about it and then to share that understanding. Regular sensitisation is a must (never mind those jaded few who deny that there are problems or that they can be solved). That the handicapped deserve our sympathy and support is very evident.

What is the nature and scope of retardation in our country? How have we intervened and can we prevent it from escalating? The handicapped within our borders can well be our teachers or we can learn from the examples of those in other countries. Whatever way we choose, it is obvious that with the right kind of support, the handicapped (or as the politically correct would say, the variously challenged) need not be a burden to themselves or anyone else, but another source of contribution for the country.

Zakia's feat as mentioned by Nazma Ahmed is not only a lesson in humility but a reminder to be a more inclusive society, to feel for and regularly focus on such special people in our midst.

The media in general should regularly feature their plight and highlight their accomplishments, as did The Daily Star.

Bangladesh's greatest resource will always be its people - no matter how disadvantaged or underprivileged. Instead of their struggling to be seen or heard, let us, the privileged, get together to find them and be their voice. They are an impetus for betterment. It is such betterment that will make us a more humane, caring and civilised society.