Rituals for the departed
Who are supposed to be impressed by these physical displays (in the 'other' world)? After death, the ultimate caretaker is the Almighty Creator, and there are no options for the living near and dear ones except to pray for the salvation of the soul, as is the practice in all religions. We are obsessed with physical PR (public relations).
We have leaders in our society who do not point out such unethical aberrations in the society. The spirit of religion has to be followed without extravagant sentimental trash. May I know what is the correct attitude in such cases?